I really liked this, Mike. There's a newer way "contingency" is being defined in attachment: Diane Poole Heller describes contingency as “a relational experience in which you feel understood by another person. You have a felt sense that this person is attuned to you, that they resonate with who you are. You feel they “get” you. You get gotten and feel felt, so to speak. Sounds so like Jesus to me.
Excellent. Amen.
Thank you Mike.
I really liked this, Mike. There's a newer way "contingency" is being defined in attachment: Diane Poole Heller describes contingency as “a relational experience in which you feel understood by another person. You have a felt sense that this person is attuned to you, that they resonate with who you are. You feel they “get” you. You get gotten and feel felt, so to speak. Sounds so like Jesus to me.